Get the stuff together to start growing my own sprouts to save money on greens
Look at Adhd planners to set a routine in my life.
1-3-5 min cards that I can do during the day.
Making my meals really simple and stopping me from skipping them.
Will update later.
Category: Gratitude Journal
It’s 2025 and…
I still am having problems with holding boundaries with Toxic friends. I dim my light and suffer to try to make them happy. At the end of the day, I care about them and don’t want to hurt their feelings but they don’t care about mines. I have to remember they are not me.
2025 Goals:
Body:
Working on “healthier” budget-friendly recipe ideas. #budgetfriendlyrecipes
Getting back to being healthy and kind to my body while doing it. #gettinghealthy
Using my hands to create things. #hobbies
Mind:
Reading and finishing a book at least once per month #BooksAreCool
Work on learning coding to keep my mind working. #TechAndCoding
What I can do to be more self-reliant and have less waste #Sustainable #diy
Soul:
Start honoring my spiritual side with practices of meditation, journaling, etc. #SpiritualPractice
Friendship + Boundaries
I don’t know how to keep boundaries on toxic people who I care about as friends.
Growing up with family that kept on violating and telling me you had to do this for family,
ADHD
Working on ways that will work for me to control my ADHD.
Will be updating with the resources that I come across.
It’s been a while…
and a pandemic started. I was doing good at sticking to 230pd range for the past few years till the past 6 months and I gained back to 250pd. I know that I have to control my PCOS. It’s confusing bc there is an overwhelming about of information and misinformation out there. Also there had to be food that I will stick to eating long term.
This blog is going to track me getting my life back on track since the pandemic changed things.
Things to work on:
Control my PCOS to lose weight.
Get my body back into shape
Learn coding or something to work my mind.
(Personal Update) Day 90/90: Made it to the end of the Project 333 Challenge.
Project 333:
I really didn’t update it because I found it so easy once I have my clothing and items pulled. I used less then 33 pieces and I just had to remember to plan when to do my laundry or I would be out of clothing. At the end, I really don’t need that much clothing but I’m also too fat to wear clothing I think is cute.
Health:
My own health still isn’t statable but the warmer weather was helping till the Santa Ana Winds kicked in today…baby steps. I’ve been going to mat pilates twice a week, and recently add in 2 dance classes per week. It’s sorta of pushing my ankle, so I might back it down to one dance class a week. I need to lose the 30+ pounds since my ankle surgery. So that’s my next goal for the next 90 days to drop 10-15 pounds.
School:
It’s been a year and half since I decide to go back to school. Part of me is freaking out that I’m not learning fast enough but I feel inspired when I’m in class, so I know it’s the right step. I have anther year and half left. Not going to cry if I don’t finish it.
Web:
I’m on one project right now but I really can’t take on any more till school is done for the semester and my heath improves. Thank goodness for the day job. I really to get back on track with learning Javascript and learnt use illustrator better.
(Personal Post) “Don’t wait for things to get better.
Life will always be complicated. Learn to be happy right now, otherwise you’ll run out of time.”
3:30 am a week ago, my friend was freaking about if she should break up with this guy she was with, via text because she was in bed with him. One of the reasons she didn’t want to let go, was because she didn’t want to die alone. I could relate to it. With all the deaths and now my mother’s illness, I can see the temptation of settling with somebody just so I wouldn’t be alone. I asked her if he makes her happy, She said Yes…eight years ago he did (They broke up 8 years ago and just recently reconnected), but not now. I told her, You have to decide if living like this for the rest of your life is worth it. Our time is limited. There are reasons why ex’s have an X in them.
When I saw the quote “Don’t wait for things to get better. Life will always be complicated. Learn to be happy right now, otherwise you’ll run out of time.” It reminded me that I keep on waiting for things to calm down to be happy to enjoy life, it’s not. Watching my mom’s illness take it’s toll on her and not being able to do anything for her, I realize I really wish I have a partner to turn to. My friends, I know are at a loss for what to tell me with all these deaths in a short time. I thought of my friend’s situation. I can see the temptation of settling so you have somebody to collapse into and just hold you.
When I was in the hospital room watching my mother, I realize that my fear of being alone might be a self-fulfilling prophecy. I’m not desperate to be miserable with the wrong person just so I wouldn’t be alone. However, I need to be open and be grounded to find a partner and I know it’s him when he refuses to give up on me, no matter what I toss at him (I have bad self defence mechanism that defaults automatically without me realizing it till way later. Has to be a guy that can see through that it’s nothing more than a smoke screen). I have an amazing life to live, and I don’t want to be surviving through it instead of enjoying it. My time is precious and I need to learn to value it more.
Not sure what life is bringing me but…
3 more weeks left in my program before I’m on my own again. Almost burned out with the drive daily 2 hours each way. Love the high of having projects to code daily, and trouble shooting in class. Must love it since I just completed 13 weeks so far. When to a beginner’s Ruby meetup today, I spent most of the time talking about WordPress + trying to learn Javascript. I think I need to stick to WordPress + JS even through I’m Ruby/Rails curious.
So I asked myself what would be my dream job. Want something I can grow my personal coding and related skills in, and it can be flexible. Something with coding front end in WordPress for a non/not for profit or social work/welfare related. I realize that working on Audrey Capital for Automattic, would be my dream job. Don’t know how to make that happen but it’s now my goal or a similar job to that.
My goal for the next 3 weeks:
- Stop skipping meals
- Drink 8 cups of water/tea a day
- Finish resume
- Finish Codetalk portfolio
- Keep learning Javascript, whatever that means
- Keep on working on learning Git + Github
“Once you make a decision, …
the universe conspires to make it happen.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Decision
Decided late last year, I would stop letting the Imposter Syndrome effect me from heading into the tech industry full time, working with or around web development. When I decided, doors started and still am opening for me. I decided to learn Javascript this year. I when to a JS meetup in Jan. At this meetup, a lady talked about Codetalk a front end dev program for women. Googled it to find out that the deadline passed but I tried anyways. 48 hours later, I started the program.
Am really blessed for the timing of getting into Codetalk. My mother when into the hospital the same day I started the program and it kept me on track on working on my coding each day. Most of the stuff is review for me, but it’s helping me polish my code and jump start my JS. I have put my life on pause for my family over the 6 years, and coding is for me, as it’s helping me move forward with my life.
Starting to breathe life again, instead of just surviving it. My mother’s terminal illness, there is only so much I can do and I’m doing my best. Need to learn to make time to take care of myself, and deal with my own illnesses + ankle issues. Am lucky that I have a roof over my head, a car that works, and food in my belly. Really blessed that coding came back into my life when it did. It’s been my muse, my escape, my passion, and unexpected, it created an extended family that I’m blessed to have.